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Discover the skills that set extraordinary communicators apart with insights from Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg.

August 01, 2024

🔍️ Today’s spotlight will give you the tools to become a master communicator thought Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Powers of Extremely Effective Conversation by Charles Duhigg.

đź“• Imagine retaining 40% more information in conversations or being 33% more likely to achieve your desired outcomes just by tweaking your communication approach. Supercommunicators delves into the science and psychology behind exceptional communication skills. Duhigg, a Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter, combines cutting-edge research with compelling stories to reveal techniques that enable individuals to forge deep connections and influence others with ease.

SMARTEST TAKEAWAY
Key Communication Strategies

➡️ Active Listening: Focus on emotions and motivations, not just words. Studies show that active listeners retain up to 40% more information than passive listeners.

➡️ Cognitive Empathy: Understand others' mental states to enhance connection. Research indicates that leaders with high cognitive empathy are 40% more effective in their roles.

➡️ Conversation Planning: Prepare key points while maintaining spontaneity. Data shows that people who prepare for important conversations are 33% more likely to achieve their desired outcomes.

INSIGHTFUL EXAMPLE
The Power of Vulnerability

Duhigg recounts the story of a struggling sales executive who transformed her performance by learning to share controlled personal anecdotes with clients. By revealing relevant challenges she had overcome, she created a sense of authentic connection that led to increased trust and, ultimately, more successful business relationships. This example illustrates how strategic vulnerability can be a powerful tool in professional settings.

A QUOTE TO REMEMBER
The Essence of Communication

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The most powerful communicators aren't those who speak the most eloquently, but those who listen most intently and respond most thoughtfully.

Charles Duhigg, Supercommunicators

DID YOU KNOW?
Communication Facts

  • The average attention span during a conversation is only about 8 seconds.

  • Non-verbal cues account for up to 93% of communication effectiveness in some contexts.

  • People who use more hand gestures are often perceived as more charismatic and persuasive.

LEVEL UP CHALLENGE
Enhance Your Communication Skills

How can you use open-ended questions (meaning questions that can’t be answered with “yes” or “no”) to have better conversations? 

Open-ended questions encourage more detailed and thoughtful responses, fostering deeper connections and understanding. They also help to keep the conversation flowing and reveal insights that might not come up with closed-ended questions.

We all know people who seem capable of connecting with almost anyone. They are the ones we turn to for advice, the ones who ask deep questions but who also seem to hear what we are trying to say. What do they know about conversation that makes them so special? And what can they tell us about how communication really works?
Supercommunicators, Charles Duhigg argues, understand—some by intuition, some by hard-won experience—that there is a science to how human beings connect through words. They understand that whenever we speak, we're actually participating in three distinct conversations: What is this really about? How do we feel? And who are we? They know the importance of recognizing—and then matching—each kind of conversation, and how to hear the complex emotions, subtle negotiations and hidden beliefs that color and inform everything we say.

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