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Cues
Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication by Vanessa Van Edwards
Communication is the secret sauce to success.
In Cues, Vanessa Van Edwards unpacks the science behind charisma, teaching us how to send signals that exude warmth, competence, and confidence. Whether you’re aiming to ace a job interview, captivate an audience, or simply connect better with others, this book is your guide to unlocking the power of verbal and nonverbal cues.
SMARTEST TAKEAWAYS
The Language of Charisma
1️⃣ Warmth + Competence = Charisma: People trust warm individuals who are approachable and empathetic but also respect those who demonstrate expertise and authority. Striking this balance is key.
2️⃣ Master Your Nonverbal Signals: Eye contact, posture, and gestures speak louder than words. Open gestures and confident stances can make you instantly likable and credible.
3️⃣ Words Matter: The words you choose can build trust or undermine your message. Inclusive language like “we” fosters collaboration, while storytelling makes your ideas unforgettable.
Vanessa Van Edwards is a speaker and author who specializes in science-based people skills
INSIGHTFUL EXAMPLE
Decoding Neutral Cues
Van Edwards shares a personal story in Cues about how she used to misinterpret neutral cues as negative ones. This led to overthinking after conversations and anxiety before them, making her feel disconnected and unsure of herself.
To overcome this, Vanessa developed a system for decoding cues—a blueprint that allowed her to understand the invisible language of social signals. By learning to recognize and label cues accurately, she gained control over her communication and confidence in social settings.
BOOK FACTS
Cues
First Published: March 1, 2022
Print length: 320 pages
Listening length: 8:01
Ratings: 4.7 Amazon, 4.2 Goodreads
WORTH WATCHING
Advice from a Body Language Expert
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